The Need

"why do we have to hate?"

haha. comic question of the day comes from username.

yes i'm trying to imitate Ray William Johnson for his bright ideas of, making something out of ordinary. i tend to blabber off with, something ordinary, and sometimes i wonder.

why do adults, most of them except for someone i, err, know. find it difficult to smile or laugh, when kids find it very easy, or prompt *apo ni? to laugh, LTAO, ROFL, LOL just for nothing. just for some small things, or ordinary?

i do not know the answer and i'm searching for it.

i don't understand, or can't, when we get older, we find it hard just to make someone smile, at us, or at someone else, or something. *dah merepek dah ni. why why oh why?

it is not THAT hard wal difficult to smile, or laugh, or maybe just smile, it's okay. the thing is, smile is CONTAGIOUS. yes. i've done it and the results are quite bright.

let's do this okay? i am at a place that is full of strangers. i.e supermarket, shopping complex, on the sidewalk etc. i sat down, and sometimes just standing, acting like a safety pole or a beggar, yes, i don't care as long as i find the answer to my question. then i smiled. to peoples. :)

and i found that, most Malaysians find it peculiar for a boy, or a man, idk, on the sidewalk, smiling for nothing. just smile, as long as it comes from your heart. i heard them quote this.

"apa budak ni? gila ke?" and

"dah takda kerja tersenyum sorang sorang kat tepi jalan, macam kerang busuk" and

"baru keluar mental hospital agaknya" and

"jaga jaga, budak ni pedophile besar kemungkinan"

okay, enough examples. why thoughts like this, that was running through our minds? i did not do any harm, as far as i know, i was just smiling and sometimes waving kids goodbye. they amaze me on how things should be done simply.

on the contrary, i smiled to foreigners, tourists, and SEGELINTIR masyarakat Malaysia has given a positive reactions on how i interact. just with smiling of course.

"hi there, u have a great smile, but what for?"

"actually, i was smiling, to make others smile, too."

"well, that's a wonderful thoughts of yours, how old are u?"

"err, honestly, i'm 17 sir."

"17? u must have a lots of spare time to smile to other people eh?"

"haha. just doing some private research sir."

"okay, make sure u did not neglect your studies"

"i won't sir, thank you." :)

for your information, that is the ACTUAL conversation. i didn't made it up. that would be very, UNETHICAL.

see how things get better with A SMILE? it is a signal, which is recognised by the brains, as a friendly gestures of our body. and it is VERY EASY to do it too.

maybe that is why i adore kids. haha. with their imagination, and a little bit of creativity, they can turn the world upside down, or they can come with a conclusions, on how things should have worked better.

children, kids, babies. i salute u!

adults just make things more complicated, because they have been introduced to, err, maturity, ego, and many other factors. it's not that i did not salute the adults, i salute them too. but things are way simpler with kids.

i wanna go back to the era where i have bum bum cheeks, suka makan habuk, minum susu, haha.

ok, that time was completely out of reach, now i have to pursue the BRIGHT future, or not so bright but what the heck. as long as i can make everybody smile. and maybe that is the mission that will never be completed by me.

and recently, i was just too busy to update my blog because, well, it's Ramadhan, and the trial examination is just a click away. so, till next time. :)

AND DON'T FORGET TO SMILE. sunnah tau. :)))